The Advice thread!

[Yanjin]

Need advice?
Well, post here and our community will be more than happy to help you and offer advice.
Please, be nice and if it involves any members here do NOT use their user-names (or actual names)

[xtobelovedx]

-_-;

[SunsetRainbow]

I like my best friend D:

[Yanjin]

I like my best friend D:

Tell him that you like him then

[SunsetRainbow]

it's not that easy...

[Yanjin]

How comes?

[xtobelovedx]

It's not as complicated as you make it, either, Sarah.

[Samantha]

Could you give more detail, Sarah?

[SunsetRainbow]

yeah sure.
I'm probably making a big fuss out of nothing but meh...
He's like at university of edinburgh, I'm not really allowed on msn and stuff so it takes ages to write to him.
I won't see him for ages and when I see him it will be only for one day =/
that being said, he's thought I liked him before and I said I didn't [coz I didn't].
But now idk...I like him now. And I really don't want to.
I know it may pass in 2 weeks but I just don't know right now.

[Samantha]

Don't you have a phone where you can call each other and/or text?

[SunsetRainbow]

He's changed numbers. I only have him on msn and facebook – and he doesn't really use facebook XD

[xtobelovedx]

Then get his new number...?

[SunsetRainbow]

He's not been on msn for a few days.
Gideon just worried me, telling me that Alan said I annoyed him. But I don't see why. And I'm like crap, I hope he hasn't blocked me..=[
Coz last time we spoke, everything was fine..

[xtobelovedx]

*shrug* I don't know. =|

[SunsetRainbow]

*scared.
D: I really like him and it scares me how much I like him.
I'm just trying to tell myself it will pass..

[xtobelovedx]

It prolly will, if you stop freakingout about it.
Seriously, liking someone is NOT that big of a deal.
I've liked a billion people in my life.
Some more than others. It's not that big of a deal. You're not in love with the guy.

[SunsetRainbow]

That's a good point.
*calms down
Thank you.
you should come to england and be like, my advice guru.
Haha XD If I was rich, i'd pay you =p

[xtobelovedx]

ha, dammit. <3Moneys.
I'm the harsh advice person. Tell it like it is, when I get tired of your complaining. :P

[SunsetRainbow]

Thanks.
I don't actually realise I'm complaining - you're one of the few people I won't get offended by if you talk harshly to me =]

[xtobelovedx]

Ohgood, then in the future I'll be really mean! xD

[Samantha]

Advice guru? xD what the hell.. nevermind

[xtobelovedx]

I don't know Sam. Idon'tknow.

[Yanjin]

Even though Gurus already give advice so making distinction on the "advice" point isn't necessary

[SunsetRainbow]

Haha xDD
Btw guys...something I have to tell you.

You know when the multi conversation started?? I'm really sorry I left but it was like the worst time to include me.

Basically, Al was saying no one liked him that way. And please don't judge me. But I was TRYING to make him feel better. So I said I know someone that likes you.

And he guessed my friend Nikoo, which made me laugh so hard. So you know when I don't think when I type?? I typed something like 'LOL I have to tell nik this xDDD'

He got offended >_<
And called me manipulative & unpleasant. It was really hurtful, I promised I'd tell him in 2 weeks. I made him upset and he made me upset and it was like gelshgileshvlgiehisv.

Why I can't keep my mouth shut?
fehslgihsg :/

[SunsetRainbow]

OKAY.
This isn't EVEN FUNNY how complicated the situation is RIGHT NOW.

IDK what to do.

This is the summary of a really complicated situation.

I like a guy called Jonny. He's 17 now, in stanmore college and I met him at expo. He's also SHORTER than me. Oh yeah and he has a gf.

His gf is called Taylor, she is apparently the shyest girl in the planet and superrrr clingy. Yeah, she wouldn't even let him go to his own birthday, and even when I invited both of them [Idk her] she wouldn't come anyway. Jeeez.

I pretty much hate her [well strongly dislike her] coz not only am I super jealous of her, she sucks. XD

Oh and he cheated on her once and he hates himself for that.

I guess you guys know about one minute I hated him, one minute I didn't. He was an utter dick to me a few days ago coz he said he didn't like me but he said it like 'I don't like you, are you bloody happy now. Sorry I'm just really angry at something, can you please leave me alone'.

Yeah.

Uhhh YESTERDAY. He said he does have a crush on me, has ever since expo. That's freaked me out coz I liked gideon at the time so I was like WHAAAAAAAT.

Anywayyyyy it's not a simple a week crush. It's not a simple 2 wk crush, even a month crush.

It's serious this time. It was like stuck talking to him via facebook chat for 2 hours. And even when I left the computer, I couldn't breathe because the feeling was so SO strong. It terrified me. And the weird thing was, I couldn't really give a shit about his height and I ALWAYS do. :P

Uh yeah. Opinions of other people are scaring me.

My friend Rosie at school - she thinks he's a player, and I should stay away from him.

My friend PJ [guy]. He's been friends with Jonny for quite a long time. He liked Jonny [and still does a bit] but Jonny told him he liked him back and then went out with someone else, leaving PJ crushed. So PJ thinks Jonny's a dickhead even though they're still friends.

SO IDK WHAT TO DO.
And I really like him. And aaaa so confusing. HELP PLEASE.

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